Did you know that your spouse is a sinner? Yes, it’s true. You married a sinner…and so did your spouse! Sorry to lay that one on ya, but it’s true. We are not perfect and when you get married, you marry an imperfect person with flaws, baggage, annoying habits, struggles, and a constant fight to please themselves over you.
Book Review: When Sinners Say I Do by Dave Harvey
That’s Deep. It’s like the author reaches into your soul in order pull out a good spouse. There is incredible spiritual depth. As Marty McFly would say…it’s heavy. But, be patient, the book starts off pretty heavy but sets a very good foundation for the practical steps in the chapters that follow. Topics that flow in the next few chapters include confrontation, forgiveness, communication, and sex.
Is “Teaching Illustrations” a spiritual gift? Man, this dude can give illustrations. I mean anything from riding a bike to opening gifts a Christmas…he is able to bring everyday life examples to drive home valuable lessons. I mean, the author even snuck in Frodo and Luke Skywalker in there. As a visual learner, this was very helpful in absorbing the material.
Beautiful End. This was quite the twist. I did not expect an ending that was so emotional and poetic. Nearly brought to tears reading stories of marriages enduring through tragedy, I found it to be a perfect ending. Although speaking of “till death do us part” as the final thoughts would not have been my first choice in writing the ending of a marriage book. But you know what? It worked. Actually, it was masterful. By far my favorite part of the book, and it left a sweet transition into putting the book’s lessons into practice in my own marriage.
What Just Happened? There were times where I asked myself, “Self, where is he going with this?”. On rare occasion, the transition from one point to another needed a little more. We started merging on the freeway at 75 miles an hour and I needed time to put on my blinker. You get me?
The Grade: A-. Based on the title, it might not be a good idea to buy it for your spouse. How about buying it for yourself first? Yeah, that’s a good idea. This book allows reality to set in on marriage. Fairytales do not exist. Sure, falling in love is magical. Your spouse is a gift that fills a part of your heart that was reserved only for them. But…Life happens. There are car problems, job losses, sick kids, sleepless nights…it’s not always unicorn rides over rainbows. So when that happens, when tension rises along with your blood pressure…how will you work through marriage as a flawed, sinful, and mistake-filled person with someone else who is all those things too. You’ll have to read this book (which points to the real answers found in God’s Word) to find out.