Is This Real Life? What I appreciate about this book is how true to life it is. These are not utopian principles that only exist on perfect planets. No, we are talking about chapters full of incredible, insightful and practical advice that belong on the counselor’s shelf.
What does that mean? Clear definitions of words using Biblical backing. For example, gossip was defined as when “I confess the sin of another person to someone who is not involved”. Yep, that’s it. These tightly wound, easy to pick up definitions are throughout the book, and quite helpful in everyday counseling opportunities.
I’m gonna use that. You will find yourself saying “oh, I’m gonna use that” out loud on numerous occasions. The charts, tactics, Bible passages, and unique methods are so valuable to help people who are in need of a change.
Careful there partner. What I like about Tripp’s books is they are never short on boldness. It is bold from the very first page where it claims this will be the “best news a human being could ever receive”. Now that’s bold. But on occasion, he goes a little too far in his theological statements using language that might be too absolute or take an interpretation too far. It’s rare, but make sure to not take it all as Gospel (which I don’t believe Tripp intended in the first place).
The Grade: A-. I think I am a bit late to the party. Nearly every counselor training session that I have attended, the speaker recommends this very book. And it did not disappoint. Great value in the counselor setting, and for that matter as a pastor, parent and husband…great value in everyday life.