Book Review: The Tech-Wise Family by Andy Crouch
Ready for a Challenge. Listen, this is not for beginners. The instructions are not keep your phone usage under 5 hours per day and limit your binge watching for the weekend. No, this book will make you want to throw your phone out the window and hug your kids for an hour. The challenge is real people, so buckle up.
Hold Hands. Why do we hold our kids’ hands in the parking lot? To lead them to our car and not let them get hit by a Target shopper who couldn’t wait to hit the dollar bin. Same principle here. Crouch holds your hand the whole way, guiding you through each principle, and giving you practical steps to accomplish each step.
Rest in Peace. Most of us reading this do not rest. You may have times of leisure, but we do not rest. God rested. Is this thing on? God rested. And yet we still think we can go 24/7 with another shot of espresso, a smartphone, and a Google home. Doesn’t work that way. You need to rest, and this plan will help you get there.
Have you met my kids? I love my kids dearly, but some of these rules/steps are…I’m laughing out loud as I type this thinking of my children…unrealistic. To his credit, the author does say this is not a one size fit all plan. For example, tea on Sunday? Yeah my 4 year old son is gonna be hyped for an afternoon of tea and classical music. I can just hear him saying, “Daddy, my turn to pick? I’d like to hear Symphony No. 5 in C minor…please daddy?”. Or the rule of no screens till they are 10. Now keep in mind, this is cherry picking the difficult ones. Most principles are dynamite and need to be considered.
The Grade: A-
The case is made. I mean, just look at this Time Magazine article, there is no debate anymore. Too much screen time for children is dangerous and hazardous to our kid’s spiritual and mental health. It’s time we take control, set boundaries, and not allow the addiction to technology start when they are in diapers. Feel free to start small. That is what our family did as we have implemented several ideas, and they have been beneficial to our family. And one more thing, the tech-wise family, it starts with the parents. Set the example, and lead your family into being a tech-wise family. It will be uncomfortable at first, but that’s often where God works best.