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The 7 D’s of How to Survive Vacation with Young Kids

  1. Dependence.  Like anything in your life, it is important to start with prayer. So, as you leave your driveway, have a time of prayer – before the DVD player begins, headphones go in, and snoring happens. Along with prayer, it may be a good time to go over some ground rules and behavioral expectations.
  2. Dramamine.  Almost as important as prayer – Dramamine. Check with your doctor first, but if possible, give your kids Dramamine to help with car sickness, sleep, and also limits bathroom trips. I call this the vacation trifecta!
  3. Diapers.  You may say, “but my kids are out of diapers”. I don’t care. If someone has to go the bathroom and is not at an age where they can hold it for a reasonable amount of time…inform them diapers are available. Hey, if it gets us another 100 miles without a stop, I’d put on a diaper (No, this has not happened…yet).
  4. Drop New Beats. One of the best traditions of a long trip is Daddy’s Vacation Mix. On the mix are new praise songs, soundtrack songs from their favorite movies (the year of Frozen was especially painful), and fun songs as well. It always is a surprise and must not be started until we are officially driving on vacation.
  5. Drive. Drive. Drive.  As Dorie would say in Finding Nemo, “Just keep driving, just keep driving”. With every stop, you are adding at least a half an hour to your trip. And time your stops well, by doing gas and food in one stop. The more you drive, the less you will have to drive later. A mantra you will thank yourself later.
  6. Dad & Mom. If possible, bring the grandparents. No, it’s not just for an extra set of eyes at the pool and beach (although that is a wonderful thing). But the kids love the memories they will build with their grandparents too and will treasure those special times.
  7. Don’t Expect Rest. I used to bring several books on vacation. Not anymore. I bring magazines now. I might get a page or two at a time. Laying out…not gonna happen. I’m not complaining. I’m in the “Dad, come swim with us” phase of my life. And I absolutely love it.


Vacation Beach(Credit for photo:  http://karimephotography.com/)

What are some tips you have for a great vacation trip? Driving many hours in the car with young kids is not an easy adventure, but these are some tips for a sane trip, fun vacation, and a refreshing time away.  What are some ways you build memories and make it special?  Feel free to comment.



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5 Vacation Ideas For Pastors

If you are in ministry, these are some vacation ideas that I learned over the past few years that have helped me refresh, relax, and re-energize over vacation.  3 point alliteration, what pastor didn’t just love that last sentence?

  1. Unplug/Throw Your Phone – Even if you have an iPhone or the like, don’t take it to the pool.  One, phones don’t like water.  And two, even if you want that high score in Temple Run, you will see those emails get past the 50 mark, and you might not be able to resist.
  2. Choose Your Reading Carefully – I made the mistake of bringing ministry related reading on vacation.  So while I was reading about youth ministry, what do you think I was thinking about reading it?  Big mistake.  You can bring spiritual reading, just not ministry-related.  That was a big help for me to let my mind relax.
  3. Don’t Talk Shop – While there may be major issues or stories you want to share, but try to keep ministry talk at a minimum.  Talk about life, that huge alligator that almost ate your golf ball, how cool you feel when you find a shark’s tooth, and other important stuff.
  4. Family Time – Soak it up.  Don’t allow the computer, having NFL network in your room, or any other distraction get in your way of spending major time and care on your family.
  5. Buy yourself a nice dress – Or shirt, or slacks (anyone say slacks anymore, because I love to say slacks).  This is vacation, so go out to dinner, buy yourself an outfit, go golfing.  I’m not saying to spend like Bill Gates at a Best Buy, but enjoy the blessings God has given you.

Now you’ve read the best blog out there, so get off your computer and go do a cannonball in the pool.

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