6 Resources on Helping Young Adults

 
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6 Resources on Helping Young Adults

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A Tribute to Warren Wiersbe

Right behind my desk, within arms reach of my computer is The Bible Exposition Commentary by Warren Wiersbe.  It was the first commentary I ever bought for my pastoral library.  It will always be within arms reach while I am studying for a sermon, lesson, or preparing to teach from God’s Word.

Dr. Wiersbe was a mentor of mine.  No, I never had the privilege of meeting him, or sit across from his desk, or discuss theology with him over a cup of coffee.  But his writing has had such an impact on my life.  He had a special way of taking Biblical doctrines and exegesis and placing them on the bottom shelf that even guys like me can comprehend and understand.  He truly was a pastor’s pastor. 

This past Thursday, Warren Wiersbe went to be with the Lord, the subject of his scores of books, sermons, and other writings.  The One He helped others understand better, He now sits in His company.  What a legacy.  Many pastors I admire point to Wiersbe’s works as a mainstay on their shelves.

With all due respect to to other commentary writers, Wiersbe has been my favorite.  I liken him to having my grandpa sitting next to my desk, and being able to ask him questions about theology and proper exposition of a text.  So easy to understand, his books are more like a conversation than literature.

In honor of his life, I want to say thank you.  Dr. Wiersbe, you have guided my understanding of Scripture, helped me gain a better grasp of Biblical doctrines, and have been a safety net for difficult passages of Scripture.  Your legacy continues on the 3rd shelf of my bookshelf, where I can find answers and insight that will never grow old.  Thank you for your help in these early years of ministry, and I look forward to the help you will provide in the years ahead.

 

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Book Review: Choosing Marriage

Book Review:  Choosing Marriage by Debra Fileta

The Good: 

Great Combo.   The author is a licensed counselor and a passionate believer, which provides a great combination of practical and spiritual help to the marriage relationship.  While providing real life examples from her personal life and counseling situations, it gives a well-rounded approach to building healthy marriages.

See Things From the Other Side.  Truth be told, most of the marriage books on my shelves are from the male perspective.  Sure, they are full of Biblical truth, but they lack one thing…the view from the other side of the aisle.  A book about marriage from the wife’s point of view was sorely needed, and Debra Fileta is a great place to start.

For real, for real.  One thing you can say for sure about this book, it is honest and real.  For example, the author gives a hilarious story of her honeymoon that provides a reality of what marriage can be.  The rose-colored glasses are knocked off your face, and the realistic approach to a godly marriage is refreshing and appreciated.

The Bad:

Can you hand me my glasses?  One complaint I have actually has nothing to do with the content of the book.  For some reason, the text seemed faint in some places.  Maybe it was just my copy, but the font could have been a little bolder for the reader.  Small annoyance in a very enjoyable read.

Careful of the hyperbole.  It was rare, but I did catch some hyperbole.  For example, in the final chapter the author mentions marriage as the “hardest and greatest thing you’ll ever do”.  Taking out the spiritual side of things, perhaps this is true.  But the greatest thing we will do as believers goes beyond our marriage, and into eternity.

The Grade:  A.   If I had to describe the book in one word:  enjoyable.  Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t just a book of whimsical saying and enjoyable stories…this book had some dynamite advice and counsel for the marriage relationship.  My point is it was written in a way where you could enjoy improving your marriage, while being challenged in an appropriate and endearing manner.  Kudos to Debra Fileta in providing a valuable resource to both singles and married folks in their pursuit of reflecting the relationship of Christ and His bride.

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Book Review: The Tech-Wise Family

Book Review:  The Tech-Wise Family by Andy Crouch

The Good:

Ready for a Challenge.  Listen, this is not for beginners.  The instructions are not keep your phone usage under 5 hours per day and limit your binge watching for the weekend.  No, this book will make you want to throw your phone out the window and hug your kids for an hour.  The challenge is real people, so buckle up.

Hold Hands.  Why do we hold our kids’ hands in the parking lot?  To lead them to our car and not let them get hit by a Target shopper who couldn’t wait to hit the dollar bin.  Same principle here.  Crouch holds your hand the whole way, guiding you through each principle, and giving you practical steps to accomplish each step.

Rest in Peace.  Most of us reading this do not rest.  You may have times of leisure, but we do not rest.  God rested.  Is this thing on?  God rested.  And yet we still think we can go 24/7 with another shot of espresso, a smartphone, and a Google home.  Doesn’t work that way.  You need to rest, and this plan will help you get there.

The Bad:

Have you met my kids?  I love my kids dearly, but some of these rules/steps are…I’m laughing out loud as I type this thinking of my children…unrealistic.  To his credit, the author does say this is not a one size fit all plan.  For example, tea on Sunday?  Yeah my 4 year old son is gonna be hyped for an afternoon of tea and classical music.  I can just hear him saying, “Daddy, my turn to pick?  I’d like to hear Symphony No. 5 in C minor…please daddy?”.  Or the rule of no screens till they are 10.  Now keep in mind, this is cherry picking the difficult ones.  Most principles are dynamite and need to be considered.

The Grade:  A-

The case is made.  I mean, just look at this Time Magazine article, there is no debate anymore.  Too much screen time for children is dangerous and hazardous to our kid’s spiritual and mental health.  It’s time we take control, set boundaries, and not allow the addiction to technology start when they are in diapers.  Feel free to start small.  That is what our family did as we have implemented several ideas, and they have been beneficial to our family.  And one more thing, the tech-wise family, it starts with the parents.  Set the example, and lead your family into being a tech-wise family.  It will be uncomfortable at first, but that’s often where God works best.

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5 Alarming Porn Statistics for Youth

I would not just call these stats “alarming”, but “jaw-dropping” would be more like it.  This is an epidemic.  Time we begin and continue to have conversations about the dangers of porn, and the broken hearts that only can be freed and rescued by Jesus (Galatians 5:1).  Click on my article below to find these stats, and more reasons to pray and have conversations with teens, parents, and your own children as soon as possible.

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Book Review: Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage

Book Review:  Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage by Jim Newheiser

The Good:

Biblical and Sensitive.  The author has great bed side manner in wading through difficult questions about marriage and divorce.  The book does not tip-toe around subjects, but appropriately guides the reader through Biblical texts carefully and effectively.

Explanations for His Explanations.  The author is so careful to take every angle and side to each question of marriage.  Newheiser goes to great lengths to thoroughly present solutions to marriage questions and take you on a full ride around all possible scenarios.

Fight Club.  Many marriages need to read the conflict chapter together.  This could save so much heartache and tension in a marriage.

The Bad:

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The Grade:  A+.  Every pastor should have this on their shelf.  It provides Biblical answers to an array of ministry and counseling situations.  Additionally, it bestows great value for marriage counseling in its beginning pages as well.  With bite size chapters, well-formed summaries, and even discussion questions for further thought, the book is a must purchase for answers about marriage and divorce.

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Need Family Advice?

Need family advice?  Me too.  So I went to God’s Word and shared God’s thoughts on the family in the past, present, and the family’s future.  Click the picture below and have a listen.

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My Favorite Spurgeon Quotes

Instead of my normal book review, I thought I would just share my favorite quotes from Charles Spurgeon’s devotional “Faith Checkbook”.  These are quotes that impacted me the most from his book, but don’t stop there.  I would encourage you to take this book as a yearly challenge for your devotional time.

My own weakness makes me shrink, but God’s promise makes me brave.

It will be far more profitable for me to become unselfish and out of love to my Lord Jesus begin to care for souls of those around me.

Among the lost souls in hell there is not one that can say, “I went to Jesus and He refused me”.

Jesus is yours now if you will have Him, lean on Him, lean hard on Him.

The Lord does not mock humble souls.

Those whom God blesses, devils cannot curse.

What can the Lord deny us after giving us Jesus?…for if there had been a limit anywhere, He would have kept back His own Son.

The Lord’s eye is not dim, and He sees the blood of the great Sacrifice with steady gaze.

If we are wise, we shall rather welcome the refining process than decline it.

His own Spirit was wrought this desire in us, and therefore He will answer it.

He that sends the clouds can as easily clear the sky.

We must feel for others, and give them, not a few dry crusts, but such things as we ourselves would wish to receive.

He argued from past deliverances that he should receive help in a new danger.

God has given us a promise of real estate in the glory-land.

Blessed is the man who is busy in secret with his kindness.

Jesus still proclaims the opening of the prison to them that are bound.

He chooses to send you, it is not for you to shrink from the heavenly call.

The Lord may not give gold, but He will give grace.

A dauntless faith in God’s brushes fear aside like the cobwebs in a giant’s path.

Let me make my service of Jesus my occupation, my lifework, my one pursuit.

We have been loved too long, and bought at too great a price to be now forgotten.

You are immortal till your work is done.  If the Lord has more witness for you to bear, you will live to bear it…A wiser mind that our own arranges our destiny.

Our bodies humble us and that is about the best thing they do for us =)

Clouds may gather, but the Lord can blow them away.

What a bondage it is when the child of God is sold under sin, held in chains by Satan, deprived of his liberty, robbed of his power in prayer, and his delight in the Lord!

The fear of God casts out envy of men…He who fears God has nothing else to fear.

The enemy has been once overcome.  I fight with a beaten foe.

It would be well to know much, but better to love much.

Worry kills, but confidence in God is like healing medicine.

Rest assured that losses for the Lord are not losses.

In Him we died unto sin once, and the capital sentence cannot a second time be executed.

Warrior of the cross, fight on!  Never rest till thy victory is complete, for thine eternal reward will prove worthy of a life of warfare.

All our past mercies are tokens of future mercies.

We have only to summon courage enough to go forward, and we shall win dark homes and hard hearts for Jesus.

Tears clear the eyes for the sight of God in His grace; and make the vision of His favor more precious.

Our business is to persevere and learn by little by little.

He whose soul does not worship will never live in holiness.

Let me never find the galley of self-conceit and self-confidence floating on the waves of my usefulness.

Try the preaching of the crucified, risen, and ascended Savior; for this is the greatest “draw” that was ever yet manifested among men.

His heart is with His people, His delight is in them, He is never slow to meet them.

God cannot turn to us unless we turn from our sin.

Jesus made the life of His people as eternal as His own.  How can they die as long as He lives.

God’s time is the best time.

It ought not to be difficult for us to humble ourselves, for what have we to be proud of? =)

O Lord, sink me in self that I may rise in thee.

The all-sufficient is sufficient for my largest want.  He who is sufficient for earth and heaven is certainly able to meet the case of a poor worm like me.

We have looked elsewhere long enough, it is time that we look along to Him who invites our expectation, and promises to give us His salvation.

Let us thank God for a little success, and pray for more.

The remembrance of the grief shall heighten the flavor of the delight.

How can we distrust when Jehovah Himself becomes house and home, refuge and rest to us?

I have more knowledge, more experience, more patience, more stability than I had before the trials came.  (Amen!)

But as for the Lord our God, He is present when we seek Him, present when we need Him, and present when we already enjoyed His aid.

He will be all to all His beloved so long as the moon endureth.

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What Does Your Teen Need?

A parent shared this podcast between two Christian moms who have raised teenagers. They give some tremendous lessons, and ones you will want to hear as you either help parents teenagers, or raise teenagers on your own! Give a listen, it is worth your time.

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